Straight, single, submissive and a little bit playful

I'm intelligent, funny and a little too playful at times.
I've always been submissive by nature so I don't want to play Dom or Switch. However I have complete control over my home and work life. This is both fulfilling and immensely stressful at times (hence the desire for the release that BDSM provides).

I crave the power dynamics involved and I'm prepared to work hard to discover my limits and make sure that those dynamics are just right. It's not all about the actual sex! 90% of sex is in your head, if your head isn't in the right place you're going to be disappointed. Get in my head, stay there, play there... you win!
If you can't get in my head I don't, and won't, fake it.

I'm not looking for quick hook ups, EVER.

I'm new to this site and it doesn't seem to work the same as others I've used! So please forgive me if I send random messages that seem unfinished (I don't know why it does that!) Or random likes and dislikes.

40, Straight