I want you to know I am part of a couple whose partner i****omfortable with me s..

I need to trust you. I need honesty even if it's hard to say. If I'm not enough or there are kinks you want let me know so we are honest about our needs and can arrange it. I want to be your friend and be able to be comfortable with you. I don't want to have to hide who i am or censor myself. I need to be able to relax and let go. I laugh alot about things and at inappropriate moments. My laughter can be a nervou****over for my anxiety or a let out for my tension, OR you could actually be funny! I need you to realise that I'm not looking for love but a best friend with sex and dominance thrown in. I need to be able to take you seriously for that dominance to work, if I laugh and you let me get away laughing AT you or don't di****ipline me I will be a brat. I will be bitchy. I can insult people without thinking and be vicious about it, thinking I am hilarious or sarky and I am but it doesn't mean its nice.

36, Straight