Less talk, More sex. More discipline.

I don't care for chatting or messaging so much. What I am looking for is real life meeting.
I am retired.living in northwest Ohio.widowed, I spent many years without sexual activity except that of my own making. I'm hoping that the future holds much more for me. I am interested in fun BDSM, not lifestyle. I especially like spanking. I am Naturally confident and competent. I feel primarily submissive in sexual play. However I can switch and have on many occasions.

69, Straight