Looking for a online or local dynamic.

Looking for a possible online dynamic or a relationship that eventually has a D/s dynamic over time. When I say 'D/s dynamic' I am not refering to sex only or bedroom D/s, but rather the non-sexual daily lifestyle. I have been in the lifestyle for almost 20 years. I am an edgeplayer and according to some a maso and a little. Online I am obedience oriented. In person I am obedience-service oriented with some sassiness cause we all need to laugh and have fun, life is hard enough no need to always be serious. I am monogamous.I prefer to meet people at a local munch that I am involved with.My vanilla life includes hanging out with friends, munches, game nights, work, gym, trying to be healthier, reading, watching performing arts, music, Netflix, exploring the area where I live, art, etc.I value those who are not thirsty, they are mature and also value trust, connection, consent, negotiating,  and open communication. I do vet.

43, Straight