Sexual submissive seeking friends who are part of the BDSM community. Also looki..

I'm currently serving a Dom (59 M straight) I was lucky enough to meet here.  We are always on the lookout for a female submissive who will fit in our dynamic.  I am in an ethical non-monogamous relationship with my husband who has agreed to allow me to honor my submissive nature outside of our marriage.  My Dom is polyamorous and we are hoping to find a submissive/(apparent ly can't say the word that describes one who seeks more intense physical ministrations) to join our dynamic. I'm also looking for friends (of any gender identity) who are also submissive.  I have been away from the scene for many,  many years and have just come back into the fold at the beginning of Oct '23 and I'd love to connect with other subs.  I also like going to a bdsm club in Chicago,  but my Dom has gone south for the winter so I'll be venturing there on my own but would love to bring someone along if I find the right connection with someone who's interested in doing that.  Local-ish to Chicagoland only.

55, Bisexual