Im interested in learning more about bdsm, hands on,and exploring my kinky subm..

I'm looking for a Dom willing to help me explore. I'm turned on by the idea of submission but having a hard time aligning that desire with my independant nature and value for individualism. I really want to explore more of this scene and my desires and find out if this is something I enjoy versus a fantasy. And at this point Im wondering if anyone even reads this...

29, Straight