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Portland Oregon

I am looking for local play partners, and hopefully a PE dynamic.

I seek a real connection, with shared core values, most especially, that wonderful dance of power and control between a Dom and a sub.

I have a lot to learn, and mistakes I will make, but I also will grow and thrive with the right leadership. There are so many things that I want to explore, I just need the right Captain to lead the way. I lean traditional, rather than TNG. I can be found actively engaged (use the same name) in the local Community.

I am not looking for a quick fck, NSA, FWB, HU, long-distance or online relationship - if that's your goal, we are not a good fit. I view 'cheating' as a consent violation...also not a good fit.

I am very much sapiosexual ie. turned on by witty, intelligent banter. Give me a sarcastic sadist any day of the week! As for the physical - I am not visually stimulated. Previous partners have ranged from 45 to 71, and a rainbow of hair/eye colors. I have had long-term relationships with M, F, and FtM individuals.

Poly/ENM.
Rack/Prick.

61, Straight